Do you have a sense it's long past time to have a serious discussion, but don't know quite where to start? Don't postpone these conversations for the tomorrow that may not come. Standing at the deathbed is most often too late. The details matter! What you take care of today will make life so much simpler for all your loved ones when death becomes a reality. The most difficult word in this conversation is the first one. So, skip it altogether and start with the feelings, "because I love you, there's something we need to talk about." Professionals at Midlands Pastoral Care can offer an objective companion in this discussion.